One of the biggest shifts I’ve seen working with high-profile talent isn’t about fame—it’s about feedback.
Or more accurately, the lack of it.
Because the higher someone rises, the fewer people around them are willing to say no.
The Silence That Builds Over Time
It doesn’t happen overnight.
At first, there’s collaboration. Conversation. Pushback.
Then gradually:
- People start agreeing faster
- Fewer questions get asked
- Decisions move through without much resistance
And from the outside, it looks like efficiency.
From the inside, it can be something else entirely.
Why It Happens
Let’s be fair about it.
People working around celebrities often have something to lose:
- Access
- Income
- Position
So instead of challenging decisions, they adjust to them.
And over time, that creates an environment where:
- Feedback feels like opposition
- Structure feels like limitation
- And agreement becomes the default
The Manager’s Position
If you’re the one still trying to bring structure, strategy, and reality into the conversation—it can get isolating.
You’re balancing:
- Protecting the business
- Maintaining the relationship
- And staying honest about what’s actually working
That’s not always a comfortable place to be.
But it’s a necessary one.
This Isn’t About Blame
It’s easy to label this kind of dynamic in extreme terms.
But more often than not, it’s not about intent—it’s about environment.
When someone is constantly reinforced, constantly validated, and rarely challenged, their decision-making framework shifts.
That’s human nature—not just celebrity behavior.
The Hard Truth
At a certain level, success doesn’t protect you from bad decisions.
It can actually make them easier to repeat.
If no one in the room is willing to say, “That’s not the right move,”
then eventually, the wrong moves start stacking up.
And by the time anyone notices, it’s not one decision—it’s a pattern.


Great post
Thanks Lois! 🙂